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August 24, 2005 (Victoria) – Be more clear with communication – Ie: tell her I’m feeling bad about myself so she doesn’t automatically assume it’s about her – Write down what each of us is contributing to the relationship – Try to elicit change or motivational statements from her – don’t turn a positive from…

July 12, 2005 (Victoria) – Catch her being good and tell her – Stick to my guns – it works better – When something bugs me, listen to what’s in my head or heart and say something sooner than later – Impose consequences for behaviour that makes me feel bad or I don’t like –…

May 9, 2005 (2:41pm) Here’s some things I learned about myself today in talking to Laina:      – i’m really not that friggin’ complicated – i really am a lot like a little kid – i like attention and praise (who doesn’t)    – i like to do nice things for people i care about…

Friday, January 14, 2005 My house is such a wreck!  I got a new TV stand, two bookcases and a new desk from Ikea delivered on Wednesday and put them all together that night, but I’m having a hard time getting motivated to take the stuff off the old TV stand and hooking everything up…